Giving your child boundaries can be a difficult experience. We love our children and can be difficult to tell our children no, especially when it is not received well, and tantrums are their response. It can be an emotional moment for all involved, but it is an important part of raising children to be independent and responsible adults. Having boundaries and sticking to them helps children to have stable and balanced relationships in the future. It teaches empathy and understanding of others. They also help to guide them in how to interact with their environment. For example, what is acceptable behavior in public settings such as school, an in the future at work. The best way to begin giving your children boundaries is to have a plan. The first thing to do is to give clear and precise expectations to include the explanation of consequences both positive and negative. For example, instead of saying “Can you clean up your room?” Say “You need to have your room cleaned before it is time or dinner (or 4:00) Phrasing it this way makes it a statement an not a question which gives the child a direct and simple direction of what they need to do. Then clearly state the consequence such as “Any thing not put away correctly is to e given away.” Keep your expectations clear and easy to understand. The next thing is to make sure that what you set is something that you can and will follow through with. One of the biggest mistakes made is giving a consequence that you are not going to do such as taking away an activity that has been planned, or a trip that has already been paid for. Never tell them that they will lose a trip to the movies if you can’t or won’t follow through with it. To be clear, say what you mean and do what you say! It is also especially important to be consistent. If the expectation is to sit at the table using table manners and talk as a family during meals on Monday, don’t turn on the television or allow the Ipad at the table on Tuesday. Being consistent erases any confusion on what you expect to happen. Children will rebel against expectations when they are confused and frustrated when the expectation is altered and not the same all the time. An important key to setting boundaries is to be a team with your parenting partner. You both need to be on the same page. Each of you need to be aware of the expectations and any consequences. You both need to agree on all the parameters in order to be a united team. Boundaries can also be a great lesson in negotiation and communication. Going back to the cleaning their room example. You and your child can negotiate on things such as where the blocks go, and which drawer is use for socks. Giving your child a chance to have responsibility for part of the expectation may give them a sense of ownership in it. Giving them a sense of control in the situation can help them follow through with a little less arguing. Just be careful as to make sure that they understand that their choices must it into your plan. You are the one untimely in charge. Setting and following through on boundaries can be difficult and emotional. The best thing you can do is not give in or give up. Keep in mind that teaching children limits will make your everyday routines go much smoother. Having boundaries, expectations, and consequences will help to teach your child how to respect themselves and others. It will help them to develop positive methods to interact with others and to formulate positive relationships.
10 Tips to Make Reading Fun for your Early Readers
Promoting good reading habits in the early years of your child’s life can benefit them in more ways than one. Not only will it give them a head start academically, but it will also allow them to develop a love for reading that can last a lifetime. Sadly, not all kids are born with a natural affinity for books. Some have to be taught early on that reading can be fun. If your child falls into this category, there are several things you can do to make reading more enjoyable for your early reader! Take a look at this list!
Start with books that are interesting to them
One of the best ways to make reading fun for your early reader is to encourage them to read books that pique their interest. If your child is interested in dinosaurs, find some books about dinosaurs. If they like cars, look for books about cars. Making the book’s content relatable to their interests will help them engage with it more.
Make it a game
You can turn reading into a fun game by incorporating some friendly competition. See who can read the most words in a minute or try to find all the words that start with a specific letter. Whoever wins should get a prize or a reward in any form. This will not only make reading more enjoyable for your child. It will also help them to develop their skills at a faster pace.
Read together
Another trick to make reading fun for early readers is to read with them. Not only will this give you some quality time together, but it will also model good reading habits for your child.
Make it a habit to carve out time each day to cuddle up with your little one and enjoy a book together. Find a schedule that fits your own and your child’s daily routine. For example, if bedtime is the best time for you, make reading a regular part of the bedtime ritual.
Let them choose their books
Giving your child the power to choose which books they want to read will promote a love of reading in them.
Take them to the library or bookstore and let them browse through the children’s section. They’re bound to find something that looks appealing to them. Once they’ve made their selection, sit down and read it with them.
Visit the library regularly
Visiting the library regularly is a great way to make reading fun for young readers. Not only will they have access to a wide variety of books, but they’ll also be able to take part in library programs specifically designed for kids.
These programs usually involve storytime, crafts, and other activities that make reading more enjoyable for kids.
Encourage them to read aloud
Reading aloud is a great way to improve your child’s reading skills and it’s also a lot of fun! Start by reading a few sentences or pages from a book, then have your early reader read the next few. Take turns like this until you’ve finished the book.
Give them time to read
Don’t try to rush your child through their books. Let them take their time so they can fully enjoy the experience. Let them know if they want to linger on a certain page or reread a favorite part. The more time they spend reading, the more fun they’ll have with it.
Let them reread their favorite books
Rereading books is an excellent way for early readers to build confidence and improve their reading skills. So, if your child wants to read the same book repeatedly, let them! It’s all part of the learning process.
Make it a family affair
Make reading a family activity by setting aside time each day for everyone to read. Not only will this create a love of reading in your little one, but it will also be a great bonding experience for the whole family.
Reward their efforts
Finally, be sure to praise and reward your early reader for their efforts. It will show them how proud you are of their efforts. Rewards and prizes could be in the form of a sticker chart where they get a sticker for every book they read. Once they’ve collected enough stickers, they can redeem them for a prize. It could also be in the form of a small toy or a special treat. Whatever you choose, make sure it’s something your child will enjoy.
Aside from its cognitive benefits, reading is an excellent source of fun and entertainment for early readers. By following these simple tips, you can help your child develop a love of reading that will last them a lifetime.
At Young Scholars Academy, our philosophy is to be a vital extension of your family, sharing love and concerns for your child as we work together to build a foundation for their happiness and success. Visit us and learn more!
Autism Awareness Month
You may have noticed that this year we’re celebrating autism a little bit differently, and maybe you’re wondering why! There has been a big push recently to switch up the way autism is viewed, and for good reason. When Autism Awareness month started back in the 1970’s, its intention was to do just that; raise awareness. Autism Speaks was founded in 2005 and became the frontrunner for all advocacy and the official color and symbol of autism became blue and a puzzle piece.
The shift from awareness to acceptance comes from acknowledging that autism is a natural condition. Accepting the beautiful differences, capabilities and ways of thinking is far more important than simply becoming aware of the condition and acknowledging that it exists, or even researching treatments and cures. While autistic children and adults can face some severe challenges, it’s important to note that just because their brains operate in a different way, there isn’t anything “wrong” that needs to be fixed. Highlighting the strengths and amazing qualities that come with neurodivergence of this kind is far more supportive.
The color and symbols surrounding autism have become quite controversial. Depending upon who you connect with, you may get a different opinion about red versus blue and infinity symbol versus puzzle piece. This comes from overall trauma caused by organizations aiming toward curing autism and harmful therapies and thought process that came with it.
In an effort to overshadow the negativity, the Light It Up Red Instead campaign was created. Red was chosen because it represents love, ambition, and respect.
The switch from puzzle pieces to an infinity symbol moves away from the negative campaigns labeling autism as a disease and a burden. The infinity symbol represents all neurodivergence and the entire spectrum, viewing the autism spectrum as a result of natural variations in the human brain rather than a “disease” to be cured.
While not all autistic children and adults feel strongly either way, it’s important to listen to those that are a part of the autistic community. The goals of autism acceptance are a greater acceptance of autistic behaviors, improving quality of life rather than masking behaviors or mimicking neurological individuals to fit in, equal employment opportunities, access to resources and support, and a shift away from trying treat or cure autism. Moving away from the negativity from the past helps get one step closer.
Ms. Amy
Parent Connection Coordinator
Infant Nursery Supervisor
Why It’s Important to Set Limits with Kids and 8 Tips to Do It
Our goal as parents is to raise happy, successful children. However, sometimes giving our children too much is not good for them. Because of this, it is important to set limits with our children to help them become responsible and well-adjusted adults.
Limits are guidelines for expected behavior both inside and outside the home. Setting limits can help kids develop self-control, take responsibility for their choices, and prevent them from feeling entitled.
Why it’s important to set limits
Putting reasonable limits in place is beneficial for kids because:
- Limits teach children about self-control and taking responsibility
- Limits set boundaries and teach kids about which behaviors are appropriate
- Limits help prevent children from developing a sense of entitlement
- Limits can help enrich children’s interpersonal relationships
- Limits teach kids self-discipline
In order to learn which behaviors are acceptable and appropriate, we as adults need to establish clear expectations. Follow these tips to help you set limits with your little one:
8 Tips For Setting Limits With Kids
Establish rules and limits early on
The earlier you establish your family’s rules and limits, the easier it will be for your child to follow them. With young children, you may want to set simple rules, such as “Stay near me,” or “Keep your hands and feet to yourself.” As kids grow, you can add more specific rules, such as “No hitting,” “No screaming,” or, “No leaving the house without permission.”
Be consistent
If you make a rule one day but don’t enforce it the next, this will be confusing. Your child won’t know what to expect. Try to be as consistent as possible with your rules, as well as the consequences that may come if a rule is broken.
Explain the reasoning behind your rules
Explain to your child why following rules is important. When you set a limit on how much TV children can watch, explain that too much TV can be bad for their eyes and overall health. If you have rules regarding how many unhealthy snacks or desserts children can eat, explain that eating too many sweets can harm their health. Your child will follow rules more consistently if they understand the rationale behind them.
Be firm and fair
It’s important to set rules and expectations that are realistic, and enforce them in a way that is fair and consistent. For example, if you don’t want children to watch TV for more than an hour a day, decide which hours of the day during which TV will be allowed. Be sure to enforce the rule consistently, even on weekends.
Use positive reinforcement while setting limits
Praise your children when they follow the rules you’ve set. By associating positive behavior with desired outcomes, they are more likely to follow the rules going forward. You may also wish to reward good behavior occasionally. The rewards do not have to be material. In addition, they can include things like extra time to play a favorite game, or getting to choose the meal for the week.
Make sure limits aren’t too restrictive
It’s important to establish firm yet achievable limits for your child. If the limits you set are too restrictive, children are more likely to become frustrated and angry. This will only make it harder for them to follow the rules.
As an example, if you set a limit that children can only talk to people they know, they may become frustrated or confused if they are not allowed to speak to the cashier at the store. Examine your rules and make sure they are attainable and fit each situation.
Be prepared to adjust your limits as your child gets older
As children mature, their abilities and needs will change, and so will the limits that you establish. Be prepared to adjust your expectations and rules as kids grow, and learn about their own actions and choices.
Be patient with your child
It takes time for children to learn and follow rules. Try to avoid becoming frustrated if your little one doesn’t always comply right away. Try to be patient, and keep reinforcing limits. Children are likely to get the hang of it as long as you’re consistent with your expectations.
It can be challenging to set limits for children. Some kids may be resistant at times. It’s important, however, to set limits for the good of our kids’ development and well-being. With a little patience, you’ll be able to successfully establish expectations and raise children who are happy, well-adjusted, and responsible individuals.
At Young Scholars Academy, we aim to create an engaging learning environment for children. Our program is filled with meaningful and fun activities that create wonderful memories. If you enroll your kids with us, they will remember their time at Young Scholars Academy with happiness throughout the years! Learn more about us by visiting our website.
The Importance of Reading with Toddlers
This is probably the most challenging group to read to because they are not going to stop moving. The trick is to find books that are interactive and asking them to move around. Here’s a few good ones:
- There’s a Dragon in your Book by: Tom Fletcher. In this book there is something to smash, splash, fire to put out, or words to say to the dragon. It’s bound to get a lot of attention from little ones.
- The Very Hungry Caterpillar by: Eric Carle. This book is just a classic to be loved by all. Kids love to pretend to eat the foods with the caterpillar. Then the pages with the holes and the partial pages make it extra fun.
- Where is Fuzzy Penguin by: Yayo Kawamura. Each page and even the cover page has a fuzzy textured penguin to find. Some are easy and some are more challenging because there’s hundreds of penguins in the book. Your toddler will have a great time running their fingers over each page to find him.
- Never Touch a… (series of different animals) by: Rosie Greening
Or any books with buttons, pop ups, or textures are sure to be a hit!
The importance is still there as much as it was during infancy. The main goals are the same; creating a love of reading by tying books to bonding and love and exposing your young child to more words than they hear anywhere else.
The magic number is 15. If you can spend at least 15 minutes out of your family’s day reading, your kiddo will be miles ahead in life. It doesn’t have to be before bedtime. It doesn’t even have to be 15 minutes all together. If they will only hold still for 2 minutes and again later, you only have 5 minutes between the oven timer. That is just fine. All the minutes will add up the same. your child’s brain will thank you all the same at the end of each day!
Lastly, here are some easy ways to sneak in reading (it’s not like we’re busy or something, ha). - Audio books in the car
- Bath time
- While getting dinner ready
- Bedtime
- Early morning
- While they eat a snack
- Outside time
- Free play (read a truck book while they drive cars on the floor)
Thanks for reading about reading with toddlers!
Ms. Brooke
Lead Pre-Kindergarten Teacher
Literacy and Curriculum Coordinator
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