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4 Simple Steps to End Sibling Rivalry

January 10, 2020 by Young Scholars Academy Leave a Comment

For kids, expressing frustration often translates to misbehavior. What they can’t express verbally, they make up for in actions and erratic behavior.

Children seldom do well with sudden changes. Anything that shakes up their routine is a threat. And that includes younger siblings when they suddenly come along.

An older child who’s had all the attention to himself all his life may realize he no longer gets the same privileges as when he was still an only child. These sudden changes and lack of attention can unwittingly brew resentment toward their younger siblings.

If not addressed properly, that can end up in sibling rivalry. 

Although this may be a common occurrence in families with more than one child, sibling rivalry can put a lot of stress on the relationship of the members within the household.

Taking steps to prevent (if not completely eliminate) sibling rivalry can help keep harmony, not only among the kids but also to everyone in the family. Here are a few simple steps to get you started.

 

Drop the labels

Children placed in categories such as who’s the smart one, who is athletic, who is friendly, and who is shy, will develop tendencies to box themselves into that single category and not strive to do anything or be anything else.

Apart from that, competitions arise when labels are involved. So drop the labels whenever possible to help eliminate competition and sibling rivalry among your kids.

We understand how handy it is to drop the name of a sibling who has accomplished something to urge the other kids to the same. But comparisons are what’s keeping the family dynamics toxic so leave the labels out of your conversations when speaking about your children and let them thrive, each in their own ways, without judgement.

 

Teach conflict resolution

While timeouts may help diffuse a situation and allow children to reflect on their actions while facing a wall alone, role-plays are a more effective method for teaching your children ways to resolve conflict on their own.

This may include:

  • situations wherein they ask permission or respond appropriately when taking turns,
  • using “I feel” statements to express their emotions verbally instead of lashing out when frustrated,
  • finding ways to cope with their temper such as counting to ten, taking long deep breaths, or walking away to get themselves out of the situation that triggers it.

Routinely check up on your other kids

Children are always inclined to seek their parents’ attention. They’ll aim to get it through any means they can, even if they have to cause trouble for it.

Babies are sure to be in more need of your careful attention but when you have other kids around the house, be sure to check up on them from time-to-time to make sure that they don’t feel left out.

Try to involve them in caring for their little sibling by asking them to do simple things they feel their sibling would be grateful for. 

Also try to schedule some alone time with your older kids on a regular basis. Ask them what they want to do and let them call the shots for a limited time. This is where you will also commit to giving your undivided attention to them for that certain period. 

What’s great is that this keeps you in the loop of what they’re up to, helps maintain your parent-child relationship, and fills in for the moments you couldn’t be there for them when you are busy caring for your little one.

 

Let them work it out on their own

In the heat of the moment, there’s one thing a parent should keep in mind: try not to get involved in the squabble!

Children have a lot of petty fights. It’s pointless to jump in and try to fix these at all times. Giving attention to these little fights only tolerates the bad behavior, leaving you with endless explanations for what started which and who did what.

This isn’t good behavior and mustn’t be tolerated so don’t bother wasting your energy fixing these. So long as no one is in danger of getting physically injured, the best way to handle them is to move out of the room and let them work out the conflict on their own.

 

Looking for more parenting tips? Visit youngscholarsacademycolorado.com for more! And if you’re preparing for your child’s early education in the Colorado Springs area, Young Scholars Academy’s preschool programs create an engaging learning environment with fun activities and unique scenarios that create lasting memories for young kids. Our family takes care of your family with the best child care! Please feel free to call 719-419-8418 to schedule your tour of the classrooms or visit https://youngscholarsacademycolorado.com for more details.

Filed Under: Family Tips, Holidays

Introducing Financial Peace Junior into Your Home

January 3, 2020 by Young Scholars Academy Leave a Comment

As you have probably heard your preschooler talk about Financial Peace Jr. or Junior himself recently, I wanted to give some suggestions on how to incorporate this program into your home. Over the past few weeks the kiddos have been introduced to new financial vocabulary including bank, store, money, work, spend, save, give, and dept. We have presented new concepts to the kids about the financial world and how to distribute money they earn. Lots of wonderful conversations have taken place and they have shown growth in understanding the concept of working and earning money. Bringing this program into your own home is an easy and beneficial system to have in place.

The first step is to establish what jobs or chores you would like your child to do in order to earn money. Working is the first step of the program that we covered. The students all have one job to do for the day, if they choose to do their job-they get paid. If they choose to NOT do their job, they do not get paid. We tried to make the concept super simple—Working = payment. Just as in the real world, when you show up and do your job, you earn a paycheck. So, at home for this area you need to establish chores you and your child agree upon that they will complete and then get paid for. Some chores may be expectations within your family, so they would not be paid. Establish the frequency of the jobs and the payment amount for completing each job as well. Establishing clear guidelines and walking through the entire process will be very helpful to make sure your child understands the expectations and process.

To help keep track of the jobs completed and payment you will want to set up a job chart in your home. You could simply handmake one or find a template you like online. If you want to be able to reuse the chart every week rather than making/printing a new one, just laminate the chart or easily use a page protector for simple wipe off with dry erase markers. Make sure that you and your child are marking the jobs completed or not completed each time. Follow up with conversations if they do not complete their job-What happens next? Do they still get paid? Encourage your child to try again tomorrow and remind them of the motto Hard Work = Money! Follow up with praise and support when jobs are competed! Make it a big deal so they will be eager to continue to do their jobs.

Next, you will need to set up the envelope system of how your child will divide up their money according to the guidelines in FPJ. For the preschool age group at school, the kids can earn $5 a week for doing their job every day. The program encourages them to split up their money as follows: Give-$1, Save $2, Spend $2. Now, this is a newer part of the program we are just now exploring so your child may still be trying to figure splitting up their earnings. Once each envelope gains larger values, spending that money accordingly will follow. Giving could be donating to a local charity, buying supplies to donate to a cause, or buying supplies in order to make something for others. Savings will go to whatever treat your child has had their eye on and spending will go to the little extras they may want to purchase. For example, have your child bring their spending money to the movies, have them take responsibility in buying the candy they want if you agree to only buy popcorn. Setting up the envelope system helps kids to establish how to prioritize their money now, which will greatly help them in the future.

Having your preschooler practice the Financial Peace Jr. program at home not only reinforces what they are learning at school, it is helping to build a foundation for future smart financial making decisions. Why not provide this wonderful opportunity? Bringing this program into your home will be so beneficial for the entire family! Practicing smart money making decisions now, will only lead to bright futures later!

-Ms. Whitney
Curriculum Coordinator
Lead Prekindergarten Teacher

Filed Under: General Updates

After Christmas Home Cleaning

January 3, 2020 by Young Scholars Academy Leave a Comment

After Christmas there seems to always be an enormous amount of clutter! No matter how much you clean up and remove before hand it just seems inevitable. Clutter for me causes stress and just makes everything ten times harder. Don’t give up hope though because there is always a solution. After a couple days and the holidays wrap up, go through the house again with a fresh pair of eyes. Start a checklist to help organize your thoughts on how you want to accomplish the task at hand.

My checklist is split up within a week’s span, each day covering a new area, so it doesn’t seem so overwhelming. Monday: toys, Tuesday: clothes, Wednesday: living room, Thursday: family area, Friday: bedroom/selfcare. Obviously lists will differ depending on needs, but the end goal will be the same.

Toys: I separate out broken toys, as well as items that just have not been played with for a while. I make two piles trash and goodwill and sort from there. If your OCD like me, you can label or have a color-coding system for organization. I went with colored bins, Red: Legos, Blue: Action figures, Orange: Cars, Green: Sports equipment and Pink: Dolls. Now for the smaller Legos, I did find a bin with a lid to try and eliminate any lost pieces.

Clothes: separate out by season and then sort into your piles for trash or goodwill. From there I will sort and put away what is not needed for current weather conditions. My system for clothes will be to assign a drawer per clothing item, one for shirts, pants, pajamas, socks and underwear. For my school kiddo I also have a drawer for uniforms. To help keep this organization each drawer has a picture label to identify which item belongs in each one.

Living room: This space should not be so tough it is simply going through picking up any extra items that have not made it to their new home. If I need to add some organization to this area it would be a hook for coats and a shoe rack.

Family area: Ours is used as a play room/ Library. Each shelf is organized by book size, now for the younger kiddos this will be hard but as long as it is kept up with it won’t get out of hand as far as pick up goes. The toy shelf is organized by kiddo, each having one shelf for toys they would like to keep on there. I let them pick and switch out whenever they choose.

Bedroom: Keep this simple and just go through your items like you have done for the kids, organization does not need to be the same just whatever works for you. You should also focus on a little self-care that day, such as a face mask or painting your nails. Just take a little down time for yourself and soak in the work you have just accomplished.

It may seem like a lot of work at first however, if you take it a day at a time you will get through it in a breeze!

-Ms. Brittani
Health & Wellness Coordinator
Lead Preschool Teacher

Filed Under: Holidays

My Favorite Phrase

January 3, 2020 by Young Scholars Academy Leave a Comment

I’ve taught four and five year old children for many many years. I love this age group because I believe that that foundation for learning and the love of learning is firmly established at these ages. Seeing them light up with their accomplishments makes my day. The challenge of a teacher is to keep them challenged. To encourage them to progress without discouraging them. To teach them to keep trying, which can be difficult in a time of instant gratification and giving up is so prevalent. You need to have activities that are challenging yet meaningful and fun.
Most of all you need to present with the right words.

Cutting with scissors is a simple but effective activity. You need to hold them correctly, you need to concentrate. Start with something simple like just cutting paper up. Then move on to cutting lines then shapes. With this activity they build fine motor skills and increased attention span.

Introduce art that isn’t finished in one day. Multiple steps over days increases patience and the level of involvement in the activity.

As you increase the difficulty of the activities you will start to hear the negative inner dialogue of the child verbalized. I can’t do it, I’m bored, It’s to hard. This is the most important part of teaching. Being there to walk and talk them through it.

So what’s my favorite phrase? You can do it.

It doesn’t have to be perfect just try your best. When I have said this it is amazing to see the pressure just melt away and they are re-energized. They push through the frustration and accomplish the goal.

As a teacher and a parent we need to remember it is always about the product but about the process. Allowing then to try without fear of failure always results in a win!

Here’s to a brand new year of growth with our kiddos!

-Ms. Dotty
NAEYC Coordinator
Lead Pre-Kindergarten Teacher

Filed Under: Holidays

Goal Setting with Children

January 3, 2020 by Young Scholars Academy Leave a Comment

It’s a new year! With a new year comes New Year’s Resolutions. A resolution is a promise that you make to yourself. I don’t know about you, but when I make a resolution, I don’t tend to stick with it after a month or two. Instead of making a resolution, why don’t we focus on goals. A goal is an aim for a desired outcome, striving to achieve something great.

Making goals as a family will help to strengthen your family bonds and teach kids to have ambition at an early age. Achieving goals also helps children to feel a sense of accomplishment. A great way to do this is to have your child make one or two goals for themselves at the beginning of a new year, new season, or even when entering a new transition for the family such as moving or changing schools.

For a child to make and achieve their goals the child must first take ownership with their goal. As a parent, we all have aspirations for our child(ren). But telling a child what their goal should be can be discouraging to the child. There is a difference between telling and guiding. This is where a parent can step in and give proper guidance for the child when goal setting. Ask the child questions to help them decide on a meaningful goal. Explain to them what a goal is and how to set them. While guiding your child, you help them have a voice in their decision, giving them a sense of self and self-worth.

Next, decide on a timeline. How long will it take to meet this goal? Having a timeline helps to motivate the child to keeping to a set schedule by creating a sense of urgency. Be sure to guild the child to a realistic timeline. It takes time to build the habits needed to achieve a goal. Change does not happen overnight.

What steps should the child take to attain their goal and how can you as a parent help your child succeed? The key is to come up with steps to follow to reach their goal. Creating steps helps to be sure there is a map to follow to succeed.

It is necessary to understand why the goal is important. When it is important to the child then he or she will work harder meet their goal, build self-confidence, and reach their full potential. Understanding the importance helps children to have a desire to succeed.

It is not enough to say, “I want to do better in school.” Is there a subject or aspect about school in which the child would like to improve? Let’s say math is a subject of struggle. The goal could then be to improve math by a letter grade or certain percentage. Maybe because a new quarter is starting, the child can set two timelines, one for the quarter and one for the semester. Some steps to improve math scores could be to ask more questions during class, study math facts, and take timed tests to improve speed in answering. Improving in math is important because math is a progression building on skills. First the basics are learned then it builds from there. Having mastery of the skill will help the child to progress successfully throughout all of their school years.

Once your child has decided on a goal, write it down and help them succeed by checking in on them and their steps to achieve their goals.

Ms. Blair
Health & Wellness Coordinator
Lead Preschool Teacher

Filed Under: Holidays

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